COD - Death

So I had to go to a meeting this morning and there was this guy there that hi-jacked the whole thing - one of those that likes to hear himself talk. It was so bad I could just about stay in my seat - I wanted to jump up and punch him. It was just that aggravating. My question today was how can I be more tolerant. My card Death - written on the top portion of this card is transformation. In order for me to become more tolerant I must change and change in a big way. One meaning is stripping away outgrown feelings or beliefs. I must say I am very judgemental and I always rely on my first impressions - if I don't like someone chanches are that I will not change my feelings. As I get older I guess I need to look at things differentely - give people a chance and not so totally rely on that first impression. Something I need to work on and believe me it will not be easy. Lets see how I do next week when the same old coot is at the meeting - hehehe.